'What it means to be fully human
is to strive to live by ideas and ideals and not to measure your life by what you've attained in terms of your desires, but those small moments of integrity, passion, and rationality.

Because in the end, the only way to measure the significance of our own lives, if by valuing the lives of others.
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Fantasies, have to be unrealistic. Because the moment- the second you get what you seek, you don't accept that any more. In order to continue to exist, Desire, must have its objects perpetually absent. It's not the IT that you want, its the fantasy of IT.

We are only Truly happy when day dreaming of future happiness. . .this is why we say indistinct speech or "careful what you wish for" it may just come true. Because you do not, really want your wish . . .living by your wants, will never make you happy.' [link]

this is currently my favorite song:
Rhyacian [link]